What makes a dog good?

What Makes a Dog "Good"?

What makes a dog "good" is as unique as every dog-and-owner duo—it’s totally personal! Some people adore a lively, mischievous fluffball who keeps them on their toes, while others dream of a couch companion who doubles as a therapy dog. Both are valid! The key is figuring out what works for you and your pup, all while respecting your and their quirks and boundaries.

 A “Good” Dog Around Visitors

Ah, visitors. They might have their own vision of the perfect dog—one that sits like a statue and never even moves a toenail off their bed. But here’s the thing: dogs have boundaries, too. Not all of them are into the "let me love you" routine with strangers. Just like not all visitors love it when our dogs jump up on them.

If your pup struggles with visitors, give them a break! Pop them in a crate with a stuffed Kong or let them chill outside with a tasty bone. This isn’t punishment—it’s a win-win for everyone. And while you’re at it, a trainer can help you teach some guest-worthy greeting skills.

Pro tip: Always have your dog’s back. If a visitor ignores your rules and your dog looks uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to step in and remove your dog from the situation. Boundaries, people! If your dog has to enforce their boundaries they'll use their teeth, which we don't want them to do.

A “Good” Dog on Outings

Taking your dog out in public is a bit like hosting Christmas lunch when you have 3 children under 5—it can be chaotic and overwhelming for everyone involved. Dogs are often expected to walk nicely, stay quiet, and put up with strangers fawning over them. All of this, while navigating a noisy, crowded world? No wonder some dogs struggle.

Here’s the good news: you’re not alone. Lots of reactive dogs can learn to feel calmer (and even love outings!) with the right approach. The trick? Skip the forced meet-and-greets and focus on creating positive, stress-free experiences for your dog. Sometimes less is more.

What Should You Allow?

Here’s the million-dollar question: What’s okay for your dog?

Start by asking yourself:

• Does my dog actually enjoy this?
• Is this making their behaviour better or worse?

For example, letting your dog sleep on your bed might feel cozy for some but could leave others frazzled (or with fewer Zs). Dogs can’t exactly write us a memo about their feelings, so keep an eye on their behavior. What seems sweet to us might not be what they need. Don't get us wrong, we're not against your dog sleeping on or in your bed. But if it negatively impacts on their behaviour, then maybe we need to reassess the arrangement.

So, What Makes a Dog “Good”?

It’s simple: A “good” dog is one that fits into your life while feeling safe, happy, and understood.

If you’re looking for support in creating harmony at home or out and about with your dog, The Dog Star Academy is here for you. Let’s team up to build confidence, reduce stress, and make life better for both you and your furry bestie.

Ready to start your journey toward a more balanced, joyful life with your dog? Give Elle a call at 0493 990 578!